Meeting Istanbul

Nearby, a man with a skullcap prayed at the tomb enclosure that housed the tomb of Suleyman. I went there to have a peek but he encouraged me to pray. So I stood there next to him, while his eyes overflowed and his voice broke as he read out a prayer from his mobile phone. I thought of him, and of Suleyman the Magnificent and of the different passions that move different men.

Getting chatty in Dublin

Now you there, you are a chatter. Just like me. So said the silverfish slayer man who had come to our apartment. Ireland, I find, is a good country for chatters. You are always having such interesting conversations with strangers - while out grocery shopping, running errands, while on a bus and asking for directions. Maybe you would like to read about the ones I have had so far?

What do you do with your grief and loss ?

In the years since I have lost my father, I have thought a lot about what I really wanted to concentrate upon when I think about him. I think I know now that it is kindness. The ability to be kind and compassionate and the ability to see that in others. In narrating these three real life incidents in this blog, I will remember my father through the acts of kindness he witnessed and those that he was a part of.

The second bedroom

Today, we got the keys to the apartment we will be renting in Dublin. It has a 'proper' second bedroom - something we had wanted but never had in the last five years in the United Kingdom. My husband looks at the second bedroom and says, now when we fight we will both have a bedroom each to sulk. It makes me laugh for I had forgotten that not having one in the past meant that we always shared the bed no matter how much we had fought in the day...